It's been about three years since I've blogged.  Time flies.  To catch you up, My daughter, Leigh and her husband have a new baby one year old on June 21st.  He's just learning to walk well, or rather, to run recklessly (!lol).  Ian looks like my sister's baby pictures, who I lost in May 2012, so he has a special place in my heart just by existing.  Honestly, I wasn't expecting any more grands so he's quite a special gift!

2nd on this list is the fact I've achieved one of my long time goals.  I graduated with my BA in English Literature in May.  My daughter, Leigh graduated at the same time with a Masters Degree in Criminology.  She's already started a 2nd masters specializing in Criminology Intel as I understand it.  I start my masters in English Lit on September 28th.  I don't expect it to be easy but feel really good about finally getting my BA.

I'm living part time with a long time friend, Thane.  He's been there for me even when my own family wasn't so he's another person who is especially dear to my heart.  When I had cancer in 2004, it was Thane who talked me into going to the doctor because of my symptoms.  I wouldn't be here today if not for his nudges!  So I owe him.

Still am out of touch with my oldest daughter, Sommer, and her children.  This is still a sadness in my life, but I don't mourn for them like I did for the first years.  I still don't understand her logic, but have read a letter she wrote Leigh telling her why she feels it best to cut all ties to her family.  It doesn't make sense to me, but as her mother, I want nothing more than I want for her to be happy and cutting all ties to her past seems to be what makes her happy.  Very dark place inside me because of losing her and four grandchildren.

My trusty mini-pin, Tai and my Siamese, Mariah are aging and growing more precious to me almost by the day.  Tai turned 10 this July and Mariah turned three.  I'll be adding pictures!  Brenda, if you're reading this, I've missed your comments on my life but appreciated the "likes" on facebook!  My friend from Madrid, I hope we get to meet some day!